What does Independence Day mean to you?
I was about to say it’s that day when wife allows me to keep things at a place chosen by me and not where she believes it should be. When I control the remote and decide what to eat and… But wait. Have I missed something? Questions like these are normally not asked in official meetings. ‘The well informed’ colleague whom I have ignored all over office and replied in monosyllables, helped with his expert opinion. It was THE Independence Day. August 15.
But is it not a day off? What is there is to discuss about it? Wife and kids have already made lots of plans like which mall to raid for the Independence Day sale. I adopted a wait and watch policy to see what others had to say. May be they will say what I was thinking and I will nod in agreement (that was a smart strategy in my mind). But I was not the only smart one. People just gave the impression they were taking notes. Nobody said a word and so it was decided to submit our opinion in writing.
What??? Now write about it?
Now questions like these are very dangerous, as they tend to bring in many sensitive issues like marriage and/or age into picture. Suddenly it strikes you it was such a long time ago because you last celebrated the Independence Day when you were in school. When was that? Let’s see – when Doordarshan had only one channel to entertain us and the day was hijacked by movies like Gandhi or Pukar or Kranti or Purab aur Paschim and lots of Manoj Kumar songs (before Mr Caneda Kumar arrived on the scene). That sounds/looks and is definitely pretty long ago! The picture above is just ro remind you about the delicious ladoo that is also traditionally associated with I-Day celebrations. What we got to eat? Read on.
Even that celebration was forced because it was compulsory (yes in bold) and the school management came up with innovative ways to ensure we attended the day without fail. Like, linking attendance to something as exciting as hot samosa snack from the canteen! Full attendance ensured. Though I am still paying the price for falling for the samosa bait but I tell you they were just so yummy! Hey Alexa can you order some from Swiggy?
It wasn’t that I got married immediately after school or there were no Independence Day celebrations. But things were \’different\’ in college. Our gang would hardly attend any lectures so the question of shocking our professors by showing our face on Independence Day was completely ruled out. We definitely had our hearts at the right place. And also there were no samosas on offer. So we gave the event a miss. Alexa, did you order the Samosa or not.
Years later when I started working as a journalist it was one of the only four official holidays we would mark from the beginning of the year. So essentially it has become just another holiday for me too. Thanks to more channels available I no longer watch Mr Bharat but can opt for a certain Mr D K Bose or now Mr Tiger. That is if I get the remote.
As for the holiday mood, things have become more organized now. Even if I miss the long weekend in the leave chart, there are reminders from travel websites. If I miss that too, the channels keep bombarding with ads of special long weekend reruns of reruns. Newspapers are not far behind with stories and pages dedicated to help plan – what else but the long weekend.
Is that all our Independence Day has been reduced to? A long weekend? People fought, gave away their lives 75 years ago so that we could plan a long weekend? Or that Samosa party, Alexa can you hear me?
(This piece was written looong before covid and lockdowns. But not much has changed. Or may be a lot has. There are three new malls in my area which means more shops to raid. India is where it was.)